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The Pressures of Book Blogging. #BookBlogger #BookBloggers #Blogger #Bloggers

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I thought that today I’d look at the pressures of book blogging – which I’m presuming you already gathered from the title of the post! I really need to think up some more flamboyant post titles, don’t I!

I’m sure that most of us, at one time or another have felt stressed and pressured with our blogs. Imagine Freddie Mercury belting out ‘under pressure‘ or we turn beet red with steam coming out our ears, or might end up tearing our hair out over a blog post (luckily I have none, so I just cuss out WordPress with my colourful language skills). We might even end up in a padded cell, shaking, dribbling, drooling and rocking backwards and forwards mumbling ‘it’s too much, it’s too much‘ or ‘fecking WordPress why won’t you do that and why are you doing that‘ while we are administered with some chill pills to make us chillax, mellow out and relieve the pressure.

So, like flasher Gremlin revealing himself, I will reveal the pressures of book blogging.

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Regular posting.

Bran flakes, prune juice, laxatives, even a warm cup of tea I’ve been told can help….oh, sorry, it’s not ‘that‘ type of regular. Doh! I mean blog posts, not toilet trips! πŸ™‚

Some people post every single day, some even post more than once a day, while others only post once or twice a week.

We’re all different and as such, all blog differently, but when you see bloggers posting once a day, do you feel under pressure to match them and post more? Or, are you happy to just post when you want and when you have posts prepared?!?

I generally just post when I want and don’t feel pressure to post every day as I said, we’re all different and we should all blog how we want.

The quality of your posts/blog.

Do you question if your posts and blog are good enough?!? I know I do! It’s something I question every time I post, not memes or poetry, memes are just fun and easy and with poetry, you’ll either think it’s good or it’s bad and then, you’ll either get the emotion and meaning behind it and relate or you won’t.

But for the more constructive posts, like this one and reviews. I find myself constantly questioning if what I put out is good enough, I’m aware that I’m not articulate and eloquent and due to that I always think my writing blows (a bit different to sucks, I’ve saved sucks for later in the post).

I try to put out what I believe is decent content but I always feel the pressure that both my posts and my blog aren’t good enough.

Reading every day.

We all love reading but do we feel pressure to read every day?!? Sometimes, life gets in the way and we can’t read, perhaps we are ill (when I have a bad headache I can’t read), maybe we have a new PS4 game to play, work, adult stuff, a variety of things might stop us from reading and maybe, just maybe we just want a break from reading, a day off and away from books or after finishing a book.

If I don’t feel like reading then I won’t, no pressure, no guilt, if I only feel like a quickie – sniggers and I manage around 10 pages or a chapter in a day, then fine, likewise, if I spend my whole day reading, it’s all good.

We all deserve a break at times even from things we love and there shouldn’t be any pressure to read every day.

Do you feel pressure to read every day and do you feel guilty if you don’t?

Reading quickly.

We can’t read all the books and I am a slow reader, some people can read fast and average a book every couple of days. Unfortunately, that’s not me, I’m a book a week reader and sometimes I feel like I should be reading quicker. I don’t think it’s pressure as such, as I enjoy reading slowly and becoming engrossed in a book but I often question if I should and could be reading quicker.

However, I’ve always been a slow reader and I always will be, so, tough shit, at times I might wish I could read quicker, but I can’t and I won’t lower my enjoyment of reading by skimming books just to get through them quicker, hell no! Fast readers, much respect, slow readers, holla at me playas!

ARC’s.

The pressure of ARC’s or for those unaware ARC = Advanced Reading Copy. You receive an ARC and feel the pressure and need to read and review before the book’s release date.

I understand that a lot of you feel this pressure but this isn’t something that I feel pressure over. I’m a mood reader and read what I want when I want regardless of release date. If it’s a book I’ve been looking forward to and I’ve got an early copy then I’ll probably read it straight away and I have read plenty of books before or around their release date but! If you don’t get an ARC read before release then it is not of major importance and it is not a world-ending catastrophe!

Often you won’t receive a book until it’s been released, obviously, then you can’t have read it before it’s release date as you didn’t get it until afterwards. Ergo, it’s now not an ARC as the book has been released and you received it afterwards, nothing advanced about that, ah, technicalities!

ARC’s aren’t something important to feel pressure over though – that’s my opinion, my blog, rules, but you know I’m happy for you all to disagree and voice your own opinions, after all, that’s what discussion posts are about, discussion! Unlike what seems to be a growing trend in discussion posts where if you disagree with the person you’re opinion is immediately deemed invalid I’m happy to debate and accept any opinion.Β It just seems wrong to stress over it, when most of us have out of date ARC’s even if we don’t want to admit it or are making out that we don’t. At least I’m being honest and saying I’ve got old ARC’s.

Do you feel pressured by ARC’s or are you like me and just read what you want?!?

Review requests.

Ah, the often dreaded review request from authors and the pressure that you feel like you have to accept it.

We are under no obligation to accept review requests and shouldn’t feel pressure to say yes, it’s OK to say no.

I understand helping authors out, which is why I’m happy to have them on my blog for excerpts/guest posts (though, it’d be nice if they sent the links, bios and all the stuff with the content to make a post, as it isn’t my job to find links) as I’m closed to review requests, but we shouldn’t feel pressure to accept and then even guilt about declining their request especially if the book doesn’t really interest us.

Reading/liking/commenting on other blogs.

You might feel the pressure to read, like and comment on other blogs. I guess this depends on your level of interaction with other bloggers and how much blog hopping you do as to whether you do actually feel pressure or not.

I suck at interaction – not in that way, I’m not that way inclined, dirty minded people! But I try my best to read and like posts. Though, I admit that I fall firmly (again, not like that) into the category of not commenting unless I have something relevant to say e.g in a discussion post, or if it’s a book I’ve read/I’m interested in reading and then finally, if it’s a blog and blogger that I exchange banter and can have a laugh with.

Time.

Tick tock! Tick tock! Oh man, always to much shit going on and never enough time! The pressure of time is ever-present to us in all walks of our lives.

Time to blog, time to write posts, time to read, time to do other hobbies, time to go to work/school – see, no discriminating on this blog as I’m including the kids! πŸ™‚ Time to eat, time to wash/bath/shower (I’m presuming that you all have some semblance of personal hygiene). Time to socialise (loner, so that doesn’t apply to me much) and time to do our grown-up and adult responsibilities.

I think we all need a time-turner from Harry Potter to allow us enough time to do everything we want! Yes, I mentioned Harry Potter, obviously, the geekiness is running rampant today.

Stats.

Something that we all feel pressure over. Our stats and possibly the lack thereof. We ask ourselves why are our stats bad? How can we improve them? Is it my blog? Is it something to do with me? Where have the people gone?

It’s even worse if you’ve seen your blog grow and start to gain good stats only to see them once again fall away.

Stats really aren’t something that any of us should stress over. There’s a myriad of reasons why we don’t have great stats and other myriad reasons why other bloggers do. Some people put in hard work, dedication and interaction to gain their stats, hard work pays off, others just seem to look out and have a blooming blog and some might even buy their followers.

If we enjoy what we’re doing then that’s all that matters and stats should be irrelevant.

Popularity.

Do you stress out over being one of the cool kids? Mr or Mrs popular themselves?!? The jock or the cheerleader instead of the geeky book reading nerd?!? Do you and your blog aren’t popular enough?!? Thinking it’s not my blog, it’s me and taking it as a personal affront that you aren’t the King or Queen of blogging?!?

This ties into our blog stats (I mentioned in the above point) and while we shouldn’t get hung up on them, that’s easier said than done and at times it’s something we all do.

But I think whereas blog stats are general, questioning the popularity of our blog is personal, especially if we blog solely for the purpose of being popular and not just for ourselves and our love of books.

I know I’m not popular and as such, I know that my blog isn’t and you know what, I’m OK with that. I’ve never been one of the cool kids or part of the in-crowd and I’m happy to be the loner sitting in the corner making sarcastic comments about everything! – though, if anyone wants to join me in the corner the offer is open. πŸ˜‰

Personality.

Do you feel stressed out over the need to be polite, happy and smiley all the time? A bright ray of pleasant sunshine on your blog? When in reality you might really be a sarcastic foul-mouthed and mean degenerate?!? Or maybe, you are a sarcastic foul-mouthed and mean degenerate on your blog who stresses out that they should be polite, happy and smiley?!?

It’s not something that I particularly stress over, I do on occasion take the sarcasm to far, I know and realise that but you all know by now what to expect from me and my blog. And, I’m guessing that if you didn’t like it, well then, you wouldn’t even be reading this post! πŸ™‚


Do you agree with my pressures of blogging?!? Disagree?!? Have any to add?!?


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200 thoughts on “The Pressures of Book Blogging. #BookBlogger #BookBloggers #Blogger #Bloggers

  1. Another fantastic discussion post, Drew, as always! You perfectly summed up every bloggers’ struggles right here ahah. It’s hard NOT to feel the pressure, especially when we’re starting out or trying to keep up with blogging when our lives change or get in the way of our usual schedules. As you said, what matters most is to keep it fun and if we feel the pressure, take a deep breath, a step back, a break even, if needed, and just remember why we love it and that we do this for us, to have fun πŸ˜€

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  2. Wonderful post! I definitely agree. I started my own book blog about four years ago but life and plans and yes, even the pressure of living up to standards set by those I saw around me (online) eventually led to me abandoning the whole project. I’m slowly starting to pick it up again and all of your points are definitely important things to keep in mind during tough times.

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  3. I think it is so easy to get stressed out. I just do what I want now and hope my reviews and posts are good enough. I did read a post that was chastising people for not posting regularly. Sorry babe but I also work full time, study and have relationships and real life to tend to. I was livid. We’ve all just to do the best we can 😁 I’ve learnt that sometimes you’ve got to let something give. Better behind than burnt out after all! I do wish I could do more though, who needs sleep?

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    1. I don’t think my reviews and posts are ever good enough but that’s more just how I am. I’ve seen lots of people proclaiming posting regularly too, I try to post regular as I can be bothered but not at set times and if if I don’t post regular I don’t care but some seem to think it’s the end of the world if they fail at regular posting, nope, we have lives and blogging is just a hobby.

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  4. This is a really great post, I’ve only just started out and already I’m feeling the struggles but I’m thoroughly enjoying it! This has definitely helped me understand that I just need to let loose and enjoy it! Thankyou! πŸ™‚

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  5. Great post! My reviews, particularly for ARCs, have really suffered lately due to a flare in chronic illness. I have struggled to get one decent blog post out a week and writing reviews has felt like being back at school and not doing my homework on time! Crazy really when it is voluntary. Really pleased to have found you, C x

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    1. Thank you.

      Ah, ARC’s, I just read what I want, when I want regardless of the release date for ARC’s. A review is a review whenever you get to it and I saw so many bloggers who review ARC’s whenever that I thought sod it, I’ll read what I want as I’m a mood reader and it should be enjoyable.

      Lmao, I hadn’t thought of reviews like that but I guess they are! Though I’m glad my homework never took me as long to do as writing a review takes, I’m not very quick at them and then still think they suck!πŸ˜‚

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  6. When I first started reviewing books I planned a year ahead of likely popular new releases on Kindle, booked them in and tried to be the first reviewer to post on Amazon with a goal of being the most popular negative or positive review for ‘big’ books. I never realized that one can burn out even in their hobbies, the constant grind of reading (often stuff I didn’t even want to) reviewing and suddenly realizing all my reviews are getting trashed because they became absolute cynical rush jobs. All for fake internet ranking (not to mention realizing that if I really want to rise in those Amazon ranks you have to have a team of reviewers to produce several book reviews per week!)

    Great post

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  7. As someone new to blogging, you hit the nail on the head with this. I’m trying to find the balance between blogging, being active, working, writing, reviewing… the list is endless and there are only twenty-four hours in a day. Thank you for this post. It’s a gentle reminder not to stress and I’m not the only one feeling this way!

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    1. That’s very true about their only being 24 hours in the day and generally never enough time! I think there’s lots of people who feel that way about blogging at times with both old and new bloggers suffering from it. I’m personally feeling the pressure and fed up with blogging at the moment so I’m taking the rest of the week away from the blog to catch up with reading and real-life things that need doing.

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  8. what’s the worse that could happen if you did the opposite and took your time and enjoyed reading the book took the notes and kept your audience waiting so that everytime you have post up your site will crash cause of sheer anticipation?

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  9. Hiya! Just came across this post and I have to agree with you on the interaction part (the irony of me commenting on this is not lost on me haha). It really can be difficult. I get a sense of guilt if I don’t comment on my follower’s posts fairly regularly. Although I really enjoy blogging, there is definitely pressures attached. Great post ✌️

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  10. I can completely agree with you saying you feel pressured to read books because you are a book blogger. I just started blogging. My passion is reading. However, I haven’t wrote a single post about a book since I started. Partly because I’m lazy and partly because I want to make the posts as perfect as I can. I don’t want to portray a book one way when I meant it to be portrayed another way.

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  11. This is such an awesome discussion post, and I agree with a lot of your points. I’ve been blogging for 3 years, because it’s fun for me, but I don’t have a big following and THAT’s OKAY!! But that still doesn’t stop me from obsessing over my stats. Sometimes I wonder, “Does any one care about what I have to say?” I also don’t fret over posting regularly, I post when I want because I work a full time job and this is just a hobby so I shouldn’t worry so damn much about this. Awesome discussion!

    Deanna Reads Books

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    1. Thank you. Posting when you want to is definitely the way to go, in my opinion but I guess there’s valid points for both doing that and having a schedule though I’m sure you actually get better stats and views for posts with a schedule and I’m too lazy to look into it.πŸ˜‚

      I think we all question if anyone reads or cares about what we write, stats aren’t important but we constantly see them everywhere and you can’t help but think about them at times due to that.

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  12. This is just too accurate! I only recently started my blog and already I feel like crumbling under the pressure! I feel better knowing I’m not the only one though, thanks!

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  13. Ah this post really gets it. I have been blogging for a bit now and haven’t seen much growth in the stats, but this really gets to the point how I should be doing this for me and not others. Love it!!

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  14. Great post! I can definetly relate to the whole lack of interaction thing. I don’t realy feel too much pressure to post regularly, I find my best posts are those that happen naturally.

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  15. Hi I’m in the process of blogging my book if you could give thoughts an feedback on the progress maybe even some advice it’d be appreciated thanks in advance.

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  16. After years of pondering whether or not I should, I’ve just started up my own blog. Your post put a lot of my fears to rest – like “perhaps my writing blows and no one will give two shits what I’ve got to say” and “what if I can’t post everyday? What if it takes me too long to read a book and review it? What if everyone loses their shit about my no-so-great grammar skills?”- For someone who has what I consider a pretty large following to feel the same, even after doing this whole blog-thing for awhile, makes me feel a bit less pressure, especially in these beginning stages of all encompassing “I don’t really know what the hell I’m doing” feelings. So thanks for that!

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    1. I never get how people post every day! I think I’ve managed to post every day for a whole week 3 times yet people post each day, all the time, often even more than 1 post.πŸ˜‚ Goodluck to them but it’s not for me and plenty of others don’t post daily either.

      Taking to long to read is something a lot of bloggers think about, I think it’s down to seeing bloggers who read 250 books a year but not everyone is like that and it doesn’t really matter how long it takes to read a book.πŸ˜€

      Grammar sucks! I hate it though grammerly has improved my grammar but it’s something that I could care less about. So I wouldn’t worry if anyone loses their sh#t over grammar then they obviously have nothing better to do with their time! The word sad comes to mind for grammar nazis!πŸ˜‚ Luckily, I haven’t had anyone really pull me up on mine, someone did on Twitter and they got told to f#ck off – politely of course!πŸ˜‚

      Lots of bloggers feel pressure at times, it’s just how it is but the community on the whole is great. And I still don’t think I know what I’m doing half the time with blogging! πŸ˜‚ I just do my own thing and people either like it or not.

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  17. Completely agree with your views on Book Blogging.
    Ever since I have started my blog I feel the need to post all the time, the jealousy from seeing what other bloggers are posting. But like you said we don’t all have 24 hours a day to just sit and read, plus the pressure doesn’t make reading enjoyable.

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  18. I think I feel the most pressure for how much to post and the type/quality of the posts. I do mostly reviews and feel like I should do more to branch out into other types of posts. And then when I do those things, I wonder at the quality and if it’s good enough.

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  19. I don’t feel pressured to read every day… reading is like my coffee. I have to read something, even if it’s a reread. I have gone a day without reading here and there and feel like something is missing.

    I also don’t mind blog hopping. I love comments! I know what it’s like to feel like I am just speaking to the wall. (This was me on Blogspot last year.) I just love commenting on here because most people actually comment back! πŸ˜€

    I do struggle with the time. I’d like to be reading when I need to blog, or actually writing something like a book or a fanfiction. Haven’t done those yet. I only have about an hour to do what I want each night during the weekdays, and a little bit more during the weekend.

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    1. Lol, yeah, wanting to be reading when you need to blog is definitely a thing, want to read, need to write reviews and posts.πŸ˜‚

      I get what you mean about reading every day. If I’m in between books I’m OK with not reading but if I’m currently reading a book then yeah, it’s what I want to be doing and something feels missing when I can’t read or don’t read for a day.

      Yeah, wordpress is great for commenting and the blogging community.πŸ‘ I could never figure out how to comment on blogger/blog spot blogs using my WordPress account so then you have to use another, add email, faff around, etc but with WordPress it’s so easy to comment on the other WordPress blogs and bloggers are generally a friendly bunch too.πŸ‘πŸ“š

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  20. A good post, Drew. It’s the same for authors, too, who nowadays need to find time for their blog and website as well as write their books. Maybe it’s just the modern world and the pace we try to live our lives.
    For me, my books come first, so I accept that, and don’t beat myself up too much about how infrequently I blog.

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  21. OMG, breathe!! I wasn’t stressed before I read your post but I certainly am now πŸ˜‰
    Keeping up with the reading is ok for me now I have finally sort-of learnt not to request excessively from NetGalley, but I do struggle sometimes to keep up with acknowledging and replying to comments. I want to stick to a regular schedule for this, but life insists on getting itself in the way

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  22. Whaat? There folks who post multiple times a day as well? πŸ˜€ I’m a mood reader/ lazy blogger / sucks at commenting on posts that don’t interest me personally. So your post hit close to home. Fantastic write-up !

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  23. This is so true. I do feel like some ppl blog just to become famous but I love it when I see people who are reviewing and really seem to just love the books.
    Hopefully I don’t fall prey to those pressures and just stick to my reviews of books I Wana read and stick to doing what I want for the reason I originally started.
    Thanks for sharing!

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  24. LOVE THIS. You’re so right on so many points and it’s really easy to compare your blog to someone else’s and obsess over why it isn’t doing as well!! Thank you for the reminder to just go with the flow and enjoy the blogging experience 😊

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  25. Another one that hits the nail right on the head Drew. I see your blog is The Blog Of The Day today on Write Reads, so well done! Well written as always. Look at all these comments too and you say you’re not popular. Your posts have comments that stretch as long as Methuselah’s beard!
    No-one hardly posts on mine. Except for lovely Nicki who keeps me going. It’s no wonder I have Bookblogger Imposter Syndrome! πŸ˜€

    Blanny

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    1. Thanks.πŸ‘πŸ“š I was on there latish last year so it’s my second time.πŸ˜€ Lol, yeah, sadly this post is from June 2017 and I get nowhere near this sort of interaction or likes anymore.😒

      Many of us have blogger imposter syndrome, I feel like that most days regarding my blog.😒 I guess it’s hard to think that you have a good blog and are a good blogger even when many people tell you that if you can’t see it yourself.

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      1. I’m going to write a post soon about Imposter Syndrome. It surprised me how many bloggers and writers felt the same. This post is handy because I’ll refer back to this one to save me blathering. Will just blather about other things as per πŸ˜€

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  26. Are you inside my mind? I struggle with all of these every. single. day. Especially the parts about feeling like my writing isn’t as good as it should be and showing my personality on the blog. I feel like most of the time you have to be funny and quirky to have success and, honestly, I just feel bleak.

    This is a great post and it’s relieving to know that I’m not the only one having these doubts.

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    1. Thanks.πŸ‘πŸ“š

      Funny and quirky works both ways though. I have a tendency to be overly sarcastic and foul-mouthed in many posts and have to reign it in with the more serious posts. I’m big into the whole my blog, my rules motto and believe that everyone should show there personality. After all, it’s the bloggers blog, if someone doesn’t like the personality on the blog then the issue is with them.πŸ‘

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  27. You and I are sympatico. Our thoughts line up pretty much the same. I *used* to feel pressure to blog as much as some – every day! How?! But it was too much. That’s not me. I found a schedule that works for me and sometimes I even ditch that, but I’ve been coming back to it, so if it ain’t broke leave the damn thing alone. Amirite? As far as stats go, they confuse me. I have no idea how to look them up, track them, or whatever. The best I can do is see how many people have seen my posts and Blogger shows me that right next to how many comments I get (usually none). That’s ok. After 7 1/2ish years of blogging I think I’ve fallen into a comfortable rhythm that suits me. It could be that I’m geting older, too and don’t give a shit. Wait. Did I just admit I’m getting older? I must now wash my mouth out with…something. Not soap. Don’t want to go blind from soap poisoning. Anyway, what I’m rambling on about is I agree with this post. 100%. You rock, dude!

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    1. Lol at sympatico, it is used in Bad Teacher which I was watching the other day.πŸ˜‚ Obviously, in a break from the highend documentaries and news that I usually peruse.πŸ˜‚

      Yeah, I struggle to see how people post daily though, ya know, I actually post quite a lot and don’t realise it but daily is very excessive and even worse, multiple times a day!πŸ˜‚

      Ah, that’s possibly better for stats! WordPress has a whole array of different stats to view, per post, daily, weekly, monthly, yearly, etc and it really is a struggle at times as you know the damn things are just there waiting to be clicked on and checked out.😒

      Ah, there’s a difference between getting older, well, admitting you’re getting older and admitting you’re getting old.πŸ˜‚πŸ˜

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  28. You have pinpointed the biggest pressures so well! The posting and reading frequency really gets to me sometimes. Before I used to think that reading one book per week like I usually do was fast but it doesn’t seem that way in the book blogging world. I also see many people posting every day and I wonder how they manage to do it. Brilliant post!

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  29. Great post. I totally agree and I’m curre you feeling pressured due to too many book tours – I take full responsibility for this but I’m tired, my eyes are hurting then I struggled to write at my best.
    Lesson learned but as a newish blogger I took on too much as I thought it was how I’d make links.
    I also stress over my ability as I just can’t produce beautifully worded posts.

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    1. Thanks.πŸ‘πŸ“š

      Ah, live and learn, well, blog and learn that’s what we all do. You’re not alone, many have taken on too much and too many tours at times, can’t be helped. Ha, beautifully worded posts, I can’t either. I resort to ranting, sarcasm, innuendos and euphemisms cos, beautifully worded, not a clue how to achieve that.πŸ˜‚

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